a path to joy

Anyone who has read all of the preceding blog entries will realize this is a short list of how to put yourself on the path of greater joy. You shine your light and others sense the change in you - and that changes them. The net result raises the vibration of the field in which we co-exist. And this birngs us closer to God, which is synonymous with love.

• Allow others to be who they are. Allow yourself to be who you are.
• Cultivate authentic relationships with yourself and others. See God in yourself and the other.
• Release judgment. Find a way to discharge negative feelings about past experience and current impressions. Look for the learning, good outcome or opportunity.
• Act on your intuition. It's your first impression of something you saw, felt, experienced.
• Love yourself. Put yourself first. By taking care of yourself first, you stand powerfully to help others whether it is your spouse, children, parents, friends, co-workers or a stranger.
• Be present. Participate in the now fully. When someone speaks to you, give them your full attention. When you commit to something, be fully present in it.
• Live from your heart. Listen to your feelings. What is your feeling about something you are doing, wanting, something happening around you. Follow the best feelings you can in any moment. What brings you the greatest joy? Follow it.

When you focus on the Emotional Guidance Scale in everything you do, you will increase your and the collective vibration. That is what the Ascended Masters have done. It is what we (can) do - with free will, of course!

In the words of Jean Houston, "We are the neurons or the cancer of the planet." You choose!

relationships

Ever wonder why relationships stall? Each of us evolves in different ways. What has meaning for one may not have the same meaning for another or the meaning may change as needs change. Alison Armstrong offers an interesting perspective on relationships in HWTM-12. It all boils down to thoughtful communication. Here are some of her profound observations:

• How we define an issue or concern frames the resolution.
• Ask the questions you for which really want the answer. Then, count to 30 so the other person can think about it.
• Men are naturally committed so need to consider their answers.
• Women need to fit with another person based on their current commitments.
• We each need to recognize the limitations and advantages to the different states that others are in as they proceed in life.
• Believe in your significant other.
• Men reveal themselves to people who cannot or will not hurt them.
• Adventurous men marry adventurous women.
• Dating is a sorting problem, not a finding problem.
• Know the feeling you look for in a man and speak your truth about it. Fly the flag of who you are.
• Create space for each other.
• No one is misbehaving.

Be sure to learn about her book, "Keys to the Kingdom", Ms. Armstrong says, "It’s written for all people who are hungry for information and insights into joyful, satisfying relationships between men and women. I encourage the reader to pause, to reflect, to absorb, and to use each of the keys to the kingdom available in this tale." Learn more from Alison Armstrong on YouTube and note the side links to more videos.

achieve your desires

Since 1986, tens of thousands of people have shared the "Abraham tapes" with each other. It's a message about experiencing joy and well-being and creating the life you want. For some it's self-help or answers to life's great questions. For others, it's simply a way to feel good and allow the universe to provide all we desire.

"Abraham is not about guiding anyone toward or away from anything. We want you to make all of your decisions about your desire. Our only desire is that you discover the way to achieve your desires."        (Excerpted from the Abraham-Hicks workshop in Monterey, CA on March 20, 2001)

These 75 minutes of FREE audio are all you need to understand the Abraham wisdom. Jerry and Esther summarize the story of their introduction to Abraham. Then Abraham introduces everything you need to consciously and deliberately create what you want in life.

• Introduction with Music ©Max Highstein.
• A Lifelong Quest For Answers  - Jerry's search for good feeling beliefs
• Living of "Think and Grow Rich"  - The difference a book made in this life
• Roberts, Butts and "Seth Speaks"  - Non-Physical Personalities and Realities
• Esther & Jerry Meet Theo  - A highly influential life-changing event
• The Abraham-Hicks Reunion  - Jerry asked; Esther allowed; Abraham spoke
• Who is Abraham; Who are we?  - What is my Inner Being and why am I here?
• The Powerful Law of Attraction  - Here's the key we've long been asking for
• Law of Deliberate Creation  - How to want it and be, do or have it
• About the Law of Allowing  - Ask and it's given; now learn to allow
• Process of Segment Intending  - Consciously develop this valuable habit
• Great Awakening and Blending  - We can communicate with our Inner Being
• Our Emotional Guidance System - Learning to listen to our Inner Guidance
• Relationships and Agreements  - Learn the secrets of co-creating in joy
• Our Healthy Bodily Conditions  - Is your body feeling good enough for you?
• The "Christ Consciousness" - Becoming conscious of the "kingdom within"
• About Habits and Addictions  - Want to release an unwanted addiction?
• What's In It for Abraham?  - We do deserve a joyous life experience